Our Sins and Our Sorrows

Isaiah 53:3 and 4

3. “He was despised and rejected by men;
a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief;
and as one from whom men hide their faces
he was despised, and we esteemed him not.

4. Surely he has borne our griefs
and carried out sorrows;
yet we esteemed him stricken,
smitten by God, and afflicted.”

These Easter verses speak of Jesus. The next two verses are more well known. Jesus went to the cross for our transgressions and our iniquities — our sin.

Verse 3 describes Jesus as a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief. Verse 4 affirms he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows as well. Jesus also took our sorrows to the cross.

“When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son!’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Behold, your mother!’ And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.” John 19:26, 27.

As Jesus hung on that crude wooden cross in his own great sorrow, he looked down and saw his mother and John. He saw her sorrow and provided for her.

Bill and I are experiencing great sorrow this week. Our Golden Retriever, Lexie, was euthanized. Her cancer became more than she could bear; more than we wanted for her to bear. It brought inordinate sorrow into our home, into our lives. We miss her lots.

I’m asking God, how will you meet us in this sorrow? Jesus knows our sorrow and grief.

Isaiah 53:1 asks “And to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed?”

The arm of the Lord refers to the power of God in action. (ESV notes). I’m noticing the power of God in action for Bill and me from the heart of the one who knows the grief and the sorrow that is ours.

“And God said, ‘Let the earth bring forth living creatures … And God saw that it was good.'” Genesis 1:24, 25. Genesis doesn’t specifically mention dogs. But Lexie was indeed a living creature that brought us good.

I love the book Every Moment Holy by Rabbit Room Press. It is a collection of liturgies for our everyday lives. The “Loss of a Living Thing” has provided words of comfort and words of prayer for me.

“Here was your good creature, O Lord,
pondered and called to life
by your compassionate design.

Here was your good creature,
and here were the spaces and the days we
shared, enjoying the glad company
and cheerful fellowship of a fellow creature.

We made room in our lives,
room in our home, room in our hearts,
to welcome your unique creation.
And we gave your good creature the name Lexie.”

The liturgy continues for several stanzas traveling through the joy of her presence that is ended with death; our normal human response; the good memories; the longing for all to be made right; recounting the character of God; ending with great hope. Copyright only allows me to quote briefly.

Her tail wagged right up to the end; she was a Golden.

What sorrows are you living with? How are you experiencing the goodness of God in the midst of your now?

 

Copyright Sue Tell, April 2021

 

 

4 thoughts on “Our Sins and Our Sorrows

  1. Rebecca Price says:

    I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for being real. Pain and loss are challenging to deal with. Your words have been perfect as I struggle with two tough losses in the last ten days. I railed at God (it’s okay to be real with Him, right?) I asked Him “just how strong do you think I am?!?” As an empathetic person I feel so, so deeply. After railing at God I opened my Bible app and said “okay, I need to know that You ‘get’ my grief.” I thought I knew what I needed to help with my grief and I got nothing. That only intensifies the grief. I’m ready to say “you know what? Forget it. I’ll deal with it on my own.” I told someone today that I used to pray to be invisible. Now I just want to be seen. 🙁 Praying for you and Bill as you adjust to life without your companion.

  2. Sue says:

    Hi Becky,

    You know I’ve thought about you lots this week. God had entrusted you with much grieving. I can’t imagine.

    Yes. For sure God loves us just as we are.

    One thought, instead of looking for what you think you need, listen for what God knows you need.

    Thank you for commenting. FMA. Sue

  3. Denise Grace says:

    What a wonderful liturgy to honor the love we hold for those warm furry friends of ours. They make us laugh and they bring us comfort and when they are gone our hearts feel their loss. When we lost Minnie 3 years ago, much like you lost Lexie with an unexpected diagnoses and a few weeks to say goodbye, my heart was broken as she was my shadow. There was a huge empty space in my heart where doggie smile and wagging tail was very much missing. It is always good to feel your feelings, but I also like the idea of celebrating God’s creations and our blessed interaction with them. Thanks for that Sue. I am sorry for the loss of your furry friend.

    • sue@suetell.com says:

      You get it, Denise … a huge empty space in our hearts … and at our heels when we’re on a walk.

      I too love many of the liturgies in that book. I often pray over the one for morning coffee.

      I commend it to you.

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